When Angele Jurgelaityte first saw Vytautas Staskevicius at the Nuremberg Army Hospital in Germany in 1947, he was 23 years old and flat on his back on a surgical table beneath a sheet. She was 19 and wearing a cotton nurse’s dress with a button on apron. The military hospital had been built in 1937 and personally dedicated by Adolf Hitler. Just like 90 percent of Nuremberg, the city that had been the ideological capital of the National Socialists, allied aircraft bombed the hospital and the six-story central section was severely damaged. By the time Angele and Vytautas met it had been re-built and taken over by the United States Army.
Vytautas was living in a refugee camp near Hanau, 200 kilometers north of Nuremberg, and Angele was a nurse trainee at the Army Hospital. She shared a single room with a bath down the hall in an adjoining building with three other young women. They were officially known as displaced persons, displaced from Lithuania, which had first been annexed by the Russians in 1940, then invaded by the Germans in 1941, and finally re-occupied by the Russians during the Baltic Offensive of 1944.
They both fled Lithuania like jumping out of a window. He was whisked up by a truck-full of young Wehrmacht soldiers, stationed at a Russian prisoner-of-war camp nearby, who stopped at his farm and told him he had five minutes to decide whether or not to come with them as they retreated from the rapidly advancing Red Army.
“I was born in Siauliai. My father was the Director of the Department of Citizen Protection there. He was in charge of the police, and the police chief. We had a farm, too, in Dainai. It was a model farm. We had all the newest tools, cutting and sowing implements. Excursions would come to our farm from all over Lithuania.”
Angele woke up the same morning while babysitting her aunt’s children to see the family hurriedly hitching their horse to a cart, tossing in rucksacks, clothes, and a small trunk of valuables, and tying the family cow to the back of it.
“I was from Suvalkija, in the southwest, from the farm of Gizai, five kilometers from Marijampole. My family was all still there, but I couldn’t go back, so I went with my aunt. There wasn’t anything else I could do. On the way we had to sell the cow and jump into ditches when planes bombed us.”
She never saw her parents again and only re-united with any of her large family more than forty years later.
Vytautas lost his parents to political persecution as the Nazis and Communists traded ideological blows, and Angele her parents to the vagaries of a world war, and both were then cut off from what remained of their families and homes by what was fast becoming the Iron Curtain.
“The Communists took my father in 1940 because he was a government official,” Vytautas said. “They took him in the summer just as he was with the shirt on his back and wearing sandals. Later the mass deportations started and my mother was arrested. She spent fifteen years in Siberia and when she was released after Stalin’s death she wasn’t allowed to return to Siauliai. My father was sent to Krasnojarsk and starved to death in the concentration camp there in 1942.”
Anton Chekhov, one of the greatest writers of short stories in history, once wrote that Krasnojarsk was the most beautiful city in Siberia.
Three years after fleeing Lithuania they were both in central Bavaria, biding time, like the more than 7 million others who had decamped to Germany in 1944 and 1945.
Vytautas Staskevicius severely injured his right hand in a hay mower accident in 1942, when he was 18-years-old and compelled to take over the operation of the family farm. He was at the Nuremberg hospital for a series of what would be mostly successful operations to restore the use of the hand to him.
“In 1940 in Siauliai the mood was very bad. We felt that something terrible was going to happen. When my parents were sent to Siberia I had to maintain the family farm. I was on a horse drawn mower cutting hay when I saw that rain was coming, so I jumped down and walked with the horses so they would pull the mower faster. As we went I fell down right on the blades. The horses stopped. My hand was almost cut off. The farmhand who was helping me ran over, and seeing my injured hand, fainted.”
One of Angele Jurgelaityte’s roommates told her there was a new arrival, teasing her that he was a young and good-looking man from Lithuania, but it wasn’t until she was transferred to the bone section of the hospital that she met him. When she finally saw him he was unconscious in an operating theater, having a small part of a bone taken from his leg and put into his hand.
She saw him everyday for the next three months on her rounds as he recovered, now fully conscious, and more than ever conscious of her.
“She took care of me,” he said, while she remembers that, “It felt so right to be with that guy.” As winter gave way to spring they began to take walks on the hospital grounds, and in the nearby wooded parks, and then into Nuremberg to the zoo and downtown to watch American movies.
He was eventually discharged and went back to Hanau, where he gave up black-marketing cigarettes and chocolate he bought from troops in the American Zone and found work as a bookkeeper for the International Refugee Organization. They stayed in touch by writing letters to each other once a week. In the middle of the year he returned to Nuremberg for more surgery, staying two months as he recovered, as well as romancing her again with long walks and talks. When he went back to Hanau they continued to write one another, dating by mail, like people had done in an earlier age.
By 1948 Europe’s refugee camps were rapidly emptying as people left for the United States, Canada, Australia, or anywhere they could get a visa and a fresh start.
“No one knew where they would end up,” Angele Jurgelaityte said. “You couldn’t go home and there was no future in Germany. We had nothing and there were no opportunities.” She finally chose to go to Canada, sponsored by a French-Canadian family in Sudbury, Ontario, to be an au pair for their 14 children. She sailed in December 1948, and after landing wrote Vytautas Staskevicius about where she had gone.
He already had papers allowing him to enter the United States, papers that had been difficult to get. He had an uncle and friends there and was tempted by the prospect. His best friend wanted to travel to Australia and suggested they go together. He debated with himself about what to do. Angele Jurgelaityte won the debate. In January 1949 he wrote her a letter and proposed he come to Canada, they get married, start a family, and build a chicken farm, since they had both grown up on farms and she knew how to break their necks. Two months later he got her return letter and started searching for a way to emigrate to Canada rather than the United States.
Almost 4000 miles away in Sudbury, but on almost the same latitude as Hanau, Angele Jurgelaityte was sure she had made the right decision.
“He wasn’t a lady’s man and I liked that. He was a steady man. And he was interesting. I didn’t want a boring man. He was the right guy for me.”
Once Vytautas Staskevicius secured permission to go to Canada, he took a train to Bremen in northwestern Germany, but couldn’t get a boat, passing the time in a boarding house in the Altstadt, and after several more dead ends finally found himself traveling back through Bavaria, across the Alps, and south of Rome to Naples. He waited for 3 weeks, living on espressos and cheap Neapolitan pizzas, and finally managed to find a berth on a boat going to Nova Scotia.
“There were millions of us trying to get out of Europe,” he said.
He arrived in Sudbury after a two-day train ride from Halifax early on the morning of September 7, 1949, with the clothes on his back, five dollars in American money in his wallet, and a small suitcase more empty than full. When no one met him at the train station he asked a policeman for directions to Angele Jurgelaityte’s address on Pine Street, and walked the three miles from the Canada Pacific terminal to her doorstep.
He found the house, stepped up to the door, and knocked.
“What are you doing here,” she said when she opened the door, wiping her wet hands on a kitchen towel, surprised to see him.
She hadn’t been expecting him until the next day, September 8th.
Standing on the steps, looking up at her, nonplussed, he said, “I came to marry you.”
The next day he moved into a nearby one-room apartment, sharing it with another man for the next two weeks. There was only one bed, but fortunately he worked during the day and slept at night, while the other man worked at night and slept during the day.
His first job in Sudbury was making cement cinder blocks for the LaPalme Cement Works, owned and operated by the large family for whom Angele Jurgelaityte was the domestic. The day after his initiation into cement making he appeared again at her door and told her he ached from tip-to-toe and was returning to Germany. She gave him a long back rub and sent him back to the cement factory.
They were married two weeks later, on a Saturday, on a sunny day in what was usually an overcast month, in a ceremony presided over by two Catholic priests, one French-speaking and the other Lithuanian-speaking. The following afternoon they went on a picnic for their honeymoon, and on Monday morning both of them went back to work. Within a year they bought a house at 147 Stanley Street and started a family, but set aside their plans for a chicken farm, since Sudbury’s landscape was more suited to mining than farming.
Vytautas Staskevicius went to work in Sudbury’s vast nickel mines, judging the work easier than cement making, eventually rising to the level of driving underground loaders and ore trains.
“I worked in the nickel mines for seven years, 3300 hundred feet underground. There were many Lithuanians working in Canada. Some cut down forests, which was very hard, and some worked in the mines, which was dangerous. I worked laying track for the trains that carried the rocks, but later I got an easier job of driving the tractors.”
Angele Jurgelaityte became her own au pair, raising three children. In 1957 they left Sudbury behind and immigrated to the United States, settling in Cleveland, Ohio, where they lived together for the next fifty-three years.
“Most of the Lithuanians started looking for better work. Many left for Montreal and Toronto. We all started to go our separate ways. As soon as our turn came up to go to America, Angele and I started getting ready.”
He earned a degree in accounting from Case Western Reserve University, went to work for TRW, and helped found Cleveland’s Taupa Credit Union in the early 1980s. In 1979, after almost forty years, he saw his mother again.
“It was the first time I returned to Lithuania. She was living in Silute, and we tried to travel secretly there, but were caught in Ukmerge and told to return to Vilnius. The next day I got permission to go for one day and I was able to get a car. I visited my mother and we spent three hours together.”
Angele and Vytautas traveled to Lithuania many times after Lithuania’s declaration of independence in 1990 and the collapse of the Soviet Union, but never again to the Army Hospital in Nuremberg, which had survived the war but was closed and torn down in 1994, there being no further need for it. The grounds were used to build apartments and homes for the burgeoning city.
“We never forgot where we met, all we had to do was close our eyes and go there’” Vytautas said. “But, where we came from and where we were going, our family, home, and community, were always more important to us. We had our own place.”
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